Did you ever meet someone and no matter how hard you try their name just never sticks in your brain. One of my daughters knows a girl named Annette. Real pretty thing. This is not a person you can forget easily. I have met her a few times over the years and for some reason … Continue reading What’s his name… →

My husband was a quiet man. Except when watching sports. Then he became an armchair coach, always yelling at the players. Sometimes when he was sitting quietly I would ask what he was thinking. The answer was always the same. Nothing. For someone with an A.D.D. brain this doesn't quite compute. My mind is hardly … Continue reading Silence →

A lifetime is a journey of solitude. Short or long it doesn't matter. It is punctuated with bit players wandering in and out of the frame of the movie. What is real or not real is decided by us and us alone. A director of sorts. Weaving through life we cast aside what isn't needed. … Continue reading Peace →

In the world of texting I.U. has become my family shorthand for I love you. Not only that, we also say it now when we see each other. I.U. JonJon, my 19 month old granddaughter says ya you. Although the three little words I love you are spoken numerous times and on a daily basis, … Continue reading I U. Family shorthand… →

Through life I have found certain words and phrases offend me. This one is right up there. Not number 1 maybe. Top 5? Ummm? No... Probably top ten. Yes. Definitely in the top ten. Now there are variations on this phrase. Or perhaps I mean theme. I say that because no matter how you say … Continue reading Their heart is in the right place. →

Eleven years ago I became a Grandmother for the second time on this very day. My own sweet Maybe Girl. Or as her Bumpa Rene' calls her, Bo Berry. Such a sweet and loving little girl and as we soon grew to realize, a force to be reckoned with. At the age of two, she … Continue reading Today is special… →

So you make a tee time as a twosome and they put you with another couple to fill out the foursome. Everybody meets up on the first tee and introduces themselves. I cannot tell you how many times I have had a woman tell me her name and immediately say just that. I'm not serious … Continue reading I’m not serious about golf, I play for fun… What? →

When the Seinfeld sitcom first aired I became hooked. Back in the early 1990's I remember going to work and talking around the water cooler about the latest episode. Being master of your domain took on a whole other meaning. My television watching changed when I started dating Rene'. We were a movie family but … Continue reading The Seinfeld Chronicles →

For as long as I can remember I have always done things my way. In fact when I die the one song I would like played is "I did it my way" by Frank Sinatra. I love Frank and the old Crooners. My oldest daughter says I am inconsistent. My husband thinks I am contrary. … Continue reading Doing it my way →

I went to camp as a child. A religious camp. A Lutheran Camp. My older siblings went to the same camp and I sent my children there as well. One year my daughter made an interesting comment. She loved going to camp because it was the only place she didn't have to explain what a … Continue reading What is a Lutheran? →